August 1, 2024
Our Differences



I was on a professional podcast network at 5:30 PM for marriage and family counseling in Patchogue, NY. The contact number is 631-475-1439.

The contents of my delivery were as follows:
Men's and women's brains are structured differently, which causes major communication problems.
The male limbic system, which is the emotional system of the brain, is minute in comparison to the large limbic system of the female.

Luckily, communication skills can correct the misunderstandings caused by the fact that men flounder when approached with women's fervent venting.

Women feel unloved when a man becomes aggressively verbal or silently walks away.

Men need to use active listening by replying with verbal mirrors of the emotions that the wife is experiencing. For example: "That is very frustrating" or "That has upset you. Now the woman feels heard and loved.

Women need to use a formula with three words to remember to fill in:
Behavior
Feeling
Effect.
Specify the explicit behavior, for example, "When you do not shower." Your feeling about the behavior: "I feel devalued." Effect: "I do not want to make love to you when you stink." The majority of men's reactions are laughter and showering.